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</html>";s:4:"text";s:28405:"BF and I were in lovce within a month, and still going strong 26 months later. or is this the end of my love forever?" thing is i can’t live without him and he keeps saying it’s for the best but he doesn’t know i wasn’t unhappy. He is probially thinking of something else or someone else. Love comes when it comes, or it may be what he thinks is love as he has had nothing to compare it to. To tell you the truth, I'm not sure I'm ready for that & I hope he doesn't say it again at this point. He has yet to tell me he loves me. I know he isn't using me for sex, his actions have made it quite clear that he isn't. My boyfriend and i of 3 years broke up 3 days ago he said he loves me , doesent think he deserves me and that its just easier if we "leave it". Me and this guy have only been talkin a short amount of time and within one week he says he loves me and shortly there after says he wants to marry me hes 26 im 22. hes even told his mom he thinks im the one. I love him more now than I did 8 years ago, but I did love him 8 years ago. After all if I'm not in love with someone why would I be spending loads of time with someone and sleeping with them?Doesn't mean I'll love them forever, but that at that point I am in love with them. Look at how he behaves, not so much what he says. Again, pay attention to … Is it too soon? He didn't even invite his parents to our wedding, which I'm really grateful for. We had been in the same social circle for about 2 years so he knew some stuff about me, but I wouldn't have said he knew me well. He still hasn&#39;t said I love you after 6 months? However, I found she was easy to fall out of love too. She had just come off a 3 year relationship from someone she no longer felt for. I'd say approach with caution, but less because of him saying 'I love you' after a month than him being 3 months out of a divorce. i'm 50/50 on this one tbh, an ex told me that after 2 weeks or so - v v early shoud have sat up then and said hang on but got swept along. I mean idk its different for everyone. He wrote me this long letter, apologizing, because I refused to speak to him, so he gave it to me, like "Here, if you won't listen, just read this." I agree, when you know there's something special going on, you might think "its too soon to say it", but you are unlikely to be freaked by it. I asked r u still inlove with yur ex/wife. Good luck! no... My bf told me 1 week after we got together and one day it just slipped out of my mouth. My advice yeah you both said it to each other...now wait for about 2-3 months lol when the so called honeymoon stage is over...then see if he feels the same way. If he's saying it and trying to restrict your behaviour ie not wanting to go out/see friends or family because you can stay in with him and Be In Love, or if he's starting with the 'If you love me then you'll do what I want' then dump his sorry arse and run. Last week, about 3 months after the last time he messaged he sent me a random text out of the blue. About a year after we were dating him his ex gets enguaged. If it feels right, let it be right. “The former could be a statement describing a feeling he feels in the moment while the latter is something said after giving it some thought,” says Darné. Talk widget showing discussions of the day & trending threads, Subscribe to Mumsnet emails direct to your inbox. He said he cares bout me a lot but takes those 3 words really seriously & won&#39;t say them till he&#39;s 100% sure. After all, ... there’s no way he meant what he said.And it really irks me to say things like that when you don’t mean it.Love … I don't think he meant it when he was dozing off. We met at work, and I think it's safe to say that we both love hanging out together. Someone who still claims to be in love after two or three months is more believable than someone who says it for the first time. and a declaration may be a bit quick- but TBH as you have spotted this, you seem to be prepared for it to be infatuation/lust.Love might follow- but who knows- does anyone come with a guarantee whether they say it after a month or a year?stop worrying. That's how things happen kid. Facebook. When, or even whether, you say “I love you” to someone or not, is so very individual. dp said it after a month (one date one weekend and copious long calls prior/0 and I wasn't worried at all as it felt different. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. He said I love you after 3 months... did he mean it? It has been so hard for me to let go, I still think about him everyday and can't understand why this happened. He is divorced, the other side of divorce, so presumably been on his own for a bit and accepted the divorce? He said I love you before we had even started dating and had only known each other for 2 and a half weeks. I was very surprised but also felt special so I said it back. He always asks if we're going to last. So I do realize there are exceptions. Too soon I'm sure. Share. He is also divorced, but his was a 20-year marriage. He hugged me, we kissed many many times and he said he loves me many times. “The former could be a statement describing a feeling he feels in the moment while the latter is something said after giving it some thought,” says Darné. If both of you said it and meant it, how can it be too soon? He always called, usually drove, was consistent, kept his word, introduced me to his parents, kids, and siblings, remembered me on holidays, took me away on vacation, introduced me to his friends and work colleagues, was kind to and interested in my son. Why are coronavirus spreads still not under control in the US states? But I didn't want to hurt his feeling because I do like him. I feel like he already loves me but he thinks he doesn't . We are very compatible and I feel like we’ve know each other for years every time we hang out. So me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 3 months, maybe a little longer. By don't question it do you mean you have said "you can't be" and he has said "but I am, I know my own feelings?" This is page 1 of 3	(This thread has 52 messages.). Again, pay attention to his actions afterwards. Over time, yes, you make more and more time for each other, but when you've just met, surely there should be other things going on.Sorry for being a cynical old moo. to have become a bit obsessed with this house? I was very surprised but also felt special so I said it back. I felt the same way, but I'm way cooler than him so I didn't blurt it out  8 years later, we've been married for 6 years and have 2 beautiful DDs. I got in a bit of a fight with my boyfriend- he said some hurtful things and I refused to talk to him, basically. Should i believe him? ! At the start he told me he was looking for a long term relationship. Don't be the old standby. I asked did u ever love me. Turns out he thinks you're the best he can do. So, basically, if your partner has told you they love you after a month and you definitely love them too because you're in one of those crazy, whirlwind, once-in-a-lifetime things, say the words! He has dated a few women after her death & before me but has had no real sparks until me he says. If You’re Not Saying ‘I Love You’ After Six Months, Move On March 9, 2015 by Mark Radcliffe 25 Comments Mark Radcliffe explains how “good enough” is the enemy of great love. Sign up here, How have you shown your appreciation for the NHS? He told me he loved me. After 6 months I found out that from the beginning of the relationship he has been trying to have sex with other women and that he is a serial cheater. To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet. We were on the phone really late, both of us pretty much dozing off and I head him say “I love you.” I asked him to repeat himslef and he said it again. If he's saying it and piling on pressure to move in/get married, be wary. He didn’t feel anything and he needs to break up with me to find himself as a person. After 3 weeks he told me he loves me I said it back. Then after 5 months he left her and we got back together. I am still in love with him… it was only 4 months ago that we broke up but he says he loves me but he is no longer in love with me. I struggled emotionally as he never broke ties with me. He is no longer that loving boyfriend, but an uncaring ex.. If you felt the same about him, you would be delighted. Is it a turnoff to women when a man wants to defer sex until he gets to know her? I don't think it's a massive problem at all! Never went out of my way to find out the reason. wasn't a good outcome. Personally, I wish I … I have only had 5 serious sexual relationships in my life, and they have all lasted at least a year. After numerous dates, text messages, phone calls and many kisses he told me he loves him. at all?) My dad told my mum he loved her after the SECOND date (!!) There have been two occasions when I've had it said to me ... it was too early, but I knew it wasn't a lie. I feel like he is falling in love with me by certain things that he does or says but I don’t want to assume anything. He told me he loved me within a month, and I told him that was crazy since he didn't really know me. With years of marriage under our belts we've never had any doubts. We decided to date exclusively after a couple of weeks. He takes me out to dinner every time we're together, and he spoils me with flowers and lots of affection. do women notice if a guy wears or not a condom? DP professed his love for me very quickly (date 3 I think? To tell you the truth, I'm not sure I'm ready for that & I hope he doesn't say it again at this point. Unlike yours my relationship lasted 6 months, and during last 2 months when I had so much stress at work and family illnesses to deal with we were communicating OK and sex was still amazing. He finds out starts a fight with me the next day emails her telling her he loves her and how he was gonna marry her and propose to her. 3. He told me he is very sexually attracted to me, and i am his dream guy and that he loves the fact i am up for anything – a hike- a trip- chill at home etc. But the problem is, that I don't want to be that person that's keeping my husband away from his parents. He had been in bad relationships before and got his new definition of love that seems complicated and wrong to me. If he has cheated on you, then it might be a sign that he isn’t in love with you. Course he loves you, At least for this week or until he sees your mate then he will love her instead of you. The same happened to me recently. I also discovered many of his huge lies. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months now. I've been talking to a man for a month online and like you, never met yet and he already said he loves me and without discussing things in detail with me, he posted publically that we are in a relationship on his social media. “I’m a big believer in time. But the fact that you are worrying about it, wondering if it means something bad, makes me think that you are Just Not That Into Him. RELATED: 15 Ways Guys Say 'I Love You' Without Ever Saying A Word 1. I knew I loved H after a month (but I didn't say it - I waited for him to say it first which took a few months), It would worry me TBH. Hi So my ex and dated like back in 2017 and we were like so In love but he got mad n broke up with me. I kept calling and he said he didn’t wana marry me. Now, six months later he has told me that he is not interested in getting married at all ever. But ha said he doesn't love me and it has been over eight months, if he feels, he knows. In it, he writes that he's in love with me. But he looked me in the eye when he said it. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. He loved what he did know. However, he's also extremely insecure. Yesterday my boyfriend told me he loved me, after 2 months of dating. He always defends me and tells his parents that their behaviour is unacceptable. We had sex. answer mine please i need help. Last week, about 3 months after the last time he messaged he sent me a random text out of the blue. For his birthday last month, I signed the card “love”. I know the angry me was just a temporary stage and now i’m back in my old life and things will get better. I have been dating a guy for over eight months now. The reason why more people aren't ending up in wildly enthusiastic relationships is simply due to one thing: they're … When he went to search it "how to tell someone you love them" was already on Google. 17yr old daughter invited boy over while we were away. After numerous dates, text messages, phone calls and many kisses he told me he loves him. What do you think of the answers? For most people yes...but then what about that whole love at first sight thing. Still have questions? Read this List of Red Flags If ANYTHING else resonates at all you need to distance yourself. 15 Reasons Why He Hasn't Said "I Love You" There isn’t a specific timeline when a man is supposed to tell you he loves you. and 2 days after the break up he posted a pic with a girl calling her he’s main chick and kinda turned cold but he kept texting me after a couple of months ‘Hi ‘ mind you he did that while still being a don’t care on social media. Even though we often feel like once we feel it they automatically should too. Couple months go by he texts me he sorry and loves me and didn’t know why he emailed her cuz he loves me. The man i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our wedding ceremony and my life was upside down.he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much..he left me for another woman with no reasons..when i called him, he never picked up my calls and he don’t want to see me around him…so,when i told the man what happened. She said she had fallen in love with me after a few weeks and I wasn't ready to say it back. I am very confused he is dating 3 women right now, and telling me he still is in love with me and thinks about me everyday. it's only an problem surely if a) you really care for him and you are frightened you'll be hurtb) you don't care for him (yet? 04/14/2015 02:45 pm ET Updated Jun 14, 2015 I have a simple theory about the world. I am hurt and he's living his life, I'm assuming. He could say it on the very first date or a few months down the dating lane, but he still means it with all his heart and sees you as a long ... you’re entitled to be cautious when a guy says he loves you. or something else?can you talk more about feeling like he's needy, because I think that (and the short time after his divorce) is the key. Sometimes I think he is God sent. It's quite possible he's just infatuated with the idea of someone and not you entirely. Your blooming relationship finally came to an end. currently expecting first dc and both besotted with each other - so guess it depends how YOU feel not him. He might be a bit desperate for 'love' by which he means regular sex and domestic service. None of them ever turned out to be abusive, just - inexplicably in my view - keen.I expect that like SGB says, it was more an expression of "thanks for the shag" or "please shag me," but it was nice at the time and not indicative of any lurking nastiness whatsoever.I think the red flag here is your feelings. But if you're generally having a good time together then relax and enjoy it. The same happened to me recently. I've known him for over a month. He told me not to contact his cell he will give me the new number cause he is being in investigated and he don’t want me to get hurt LIES. is it a red flag when a person mentions casually in convo several times that theyre always right? We were on the phone really late, both of us pretty much dozing off and I head him say “I love you.” I asked him to repeat himslef and he said it again. Whatever the situation that has led you to say, he loves me but won’t commit, ... After a year he left me for his ex and i had to move out. We def broke up after that. My husband has said it to me exactly once, when he was holding our newborn son for the first time. Twitter. AFter dating a guy for a year even though we were perfect and he says I have everything and loves me very much, he says he doesn’t think I’m “the one” for him. I would have just figured it was him being drunk after bowling, but then he went to show me something on Google. A month after that he asked me to go for a drink when he is in my state next, and I very politely declined. Please help! I just had to come to terms with him confusing love with infatution. He said I guess. After numerous dates, text messages, phone calls and many kisses he told me he loves him. He lives on the other side of the country. I also discovered many of his huge lies. and she ran away. Some guys are just very soppy, as are some women. I understand you are in a deep confusion and worry.. with one big worry in your mind. Uh yeah, it's a little too soon. He's not ready to say it. I can usually tell if I'm in love with someone within a month after spending alot of time with them. run run run. I was shocked and didn't know what to do, so I said I loved him too. And we are still together its been 3 years. Would you like to test Pura’s eco nappies or plastic free baby wipes? I eventually said it back a few months later when I really felt it. He was the one who told me he was my true love, he was the one who would tell me that I was stuck with him for at least 50 more years, and all that corny lovey dovey stuff. It was at 11:30pm and he said “I saw ….. the other day and thought of … Whatever. I've known him for over a month. I loved him from the start and still today, but he doesn't. This was after we’ve met up and had a few text conversations. DH told me he loved me and wanted to marry me after less than 2 weeks dating. £200 voucher to be won, Win up to £500 worth of clothes: Share what you would buy from Zalando. he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me … Either way that makes you special :). My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, he said he didn't love me anymore. I had something happen like that before minus the "I love you" part. For him, they aren’t just words. He gave me a thank you card after and signed the card “love”. He said there’s a 80 percent chance he won’t come back after this break up. What do I do!! Obviously, I'm a cynic no more. I was with a guy for 6 months. Thankfully they met again two years later and was married 9 months after that. Just because he's not saying it now doesn't mean he'll never say it. Here they are, 28 years down the line perfectly happy. I know that I shouldn't have because I don't, and I'm only 15! He promised the sun, moon and stars and professed undying love. We have now been together 8 years, he proposed earlier this year and he is the love of my life. He didn’t feel the spark. Some people are crap at being alonem and in the case of some men it's because they basically want a woman to provide them with home comforts, regular meals as well as ego-stroking and cocksucking.Again, don't panic but don't sleepwalk into more commitment than you actually want (with this man or any man) either. It's a tricky one - you've also flagged that your talks have got "too heavy" already - is he pushing you for info or is he giving too much out himself? Just because he's not saying it now doesn't mean he'll never say it. 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