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</html>";s:4:"text";s:36120:"He has problems at work, and he has no time for love right now. i am so sad.i can’t sleep all night wandering why he is not interested in me. Below, I describe how healthy and good it means to have spaces in your togetherness. I was so excited and I felt so happy that he came back in my life.We had a rocky start, it took about 6 months for us to start dating because he didn’t trust me at first, I had to prove it to him that I could be trusted. Every time i saw him after that i knew i was in love but never shared my feelings.In 2015 we reconnected and since then we have planned all our vacations together. I’m so upset hurt and  confused. I’m Devastated! because both of them are now dead.. what am i gonna do? Will he wake up one day and realise what he has done? Little rough but mostly awesome. Hi Maria, I know what u r going through four weeks on Saturday my fiancée dumped me says he didnt love me anymore. He says im pathetic everytime he can. He just recently went back to prison and I’m 21 weeks pregnant. But not now. Sometimes the best way to save a relationship – especially when your partner says he doesn’t love you anymore – is to give him time and space to figure out what he wants. So maybe i had been a bit more clingy then normal. Then he goes to say how he’s been thinking the past few days how he isn’t in love with me anymore and how he had been thinking about it since I left in june..I said well why didn’t you tell me this then instead of now..all he says is how he tried to push those feelings away. Long time. But as much as I love him, I feel that dislike list along with not being ready for my move is the first step in his leaving me. “I don’t want to f**ing be with you anymore.” He screamed into my face. There was no passion. You may never find all the answers, but you can work through the questions. Thank you for sharing. I don’t wan’t to leave anymore(((. He left to go over seas in 2014, and it was hard but we got through it. Last week, he’s so clingy. Then he dragged me along to detach himself from me slowly while persuing this girl he is with. they even went as far as to search his entire phone, and break up with me over text AS their son. I wish you all the best, and want you to realize that you WILL be happy, healthy, and strong again…it just takes time to heal a broken heart. I hope you have risen from the ashes and gaining back your life to the point where you’re ‘living’ again. He never loved me.He declared he doesn’t even love his mother.I was supposed to be ok with it as it was just the honest truth.He said Do you want me to lie ? He says he’s not in love with you anymore, and you’re grieving the loss of your relationship. genuinely become happy with you and put yourself first. I think it’s sad he’s not there for you when you need. Talking about another man is a sign that your wife no longer loves you. Delete the other person from your phone. I wish I could just shut off what I was feeling like she can just shut it off. So despite the awkward situation at home we went. I don’t know how to start my life when I’m already old. But let me tell you, it hit me like a ton of bricks. Went to his sisters. You would be their outlet. When one or both couples don’t see this bigger perspective, it often takes a problem like an affair, huge arguments etc to break the couple apart (or to help them to readjust their relationship), but when seen from this higher spiritual perspective the person can see that it is either time to readjust the relationship or it is time to move on, that they don’t resonate any more, that there is something else for them to move on to that is a better fit. You are healing, and you will stop thinking about him all day long. I’m so hurt that he didn’t respect me enough to tell me earlier as maybe we could have worked on things. We love together and everything in apartmemts. :'( i love him and we have our son. I blame myself. But if he the person who actually shows up when things are going wrong, then he might be in love too. Over the last few months I’ve just stayed back go with he flow and think I have to stay quiet. The stress from his life addling his brain? Reply. So what does it mean that you are no longer offering value? Hang out with friends..   he even mentioned the guy I told him about when we split….I said no. He only greeted me “morning” and would message me that “he’s out from work”. He was the first person my entire life who showed me how to be sober how to attack life how to grow . ha, he just got worse. That our union was special and had depth and meaning. I don’t know how much more I can take, my heart breaks every day. He told me that i am dull and boring. After he revealed he wanted to come back. He hasn’t boldly told me that he doesn’t want this relationship anymore  but he has made it clear with his actions that he doesn’t love and need me anymore.I have tried everything to move on from him but I still haven’t been able to.I cry every time I find myself alone.I just don’t know what else to do again to stop loving him. He has a very stressful situation now. he changed a lot. I didn’t contact him since then, just wrote him a farewell letter (what I would have told him, if he could have listen to me that night). He unfriended me on FB etc. But everyone tells me hell come back with wrong reasons. He was home ((% of the nights when I called after my dinner break. I just don’t get it. Were now about to be 25 and he asked me to marry him. Ok, here’s what I’m thinking. and he thinks about it wondering if he is doing e right thing. Listen or I just get offended…. But even when they’re difficult, there is always an underlying sense that more likely than not you’re meant to be together. I trust him but hearing him say he wasn’t in love yet pierced me. It’s not just because I had to move. We have never ever spoke to his family lots of bad blood there so no support from them and it’s all just a mess really. I asked why does he want to be with a woman that he does not love and he said because maybe he will never be able to find love and doesn not want to be alone.I obviously felt rejected, very upset so I told him I thought it  was a cruel statement to make and selfish as I’d been In a relationship with him for 3 years .He got angry  as he said my statements are just very bothersome and draining. He says things like he made a decision now he feels better, he can’t go back on the life change etc. he like to shut himself out nowadays and i am always begging him to come out of his shell and be happy,but he’s so sulky, i am so stress becos he is hating my dad and he’s so angry with me abt so many things. For example: maybe their extreme social anxiety would make it nearly impossible for them to give you the validation you need in a relationship. He was like; My feelings for you are kinds not the same anymore. This helps to heal the heart tremendously. I feel so small, so rejected and so ugly. Yes but why prolong our relationship when he doesn’t want it anymore and he will resent me if we force things? He keeps trying to put us in the ‘friends’ box though. You fantasize the possibility of having a relationship with other people around you. He said to me he cant forget what happen 4years ago when i dated another man. He says I don’t trust him, that I’m controlling. I don’t know how old he is but my partner was 49 and he’s never going to change, he’s too messed up and too emotionally morose. When you boyfriend get a new woman he would no hesitate to leave you. The same thing happened to me just now. hi ive been with my husband for 12 years married for 4..at the moment he is going through a hard time with his emotions..he has been put on citalapram because his emotions towards everything an everyone have gone..he says he doesn’t feel love anymore and doesnt care about anything..do i stay with him to see how things go or do i tell him to leave for a bit..he says he doesnt want to go because he really wants to work out whats happening. I have him all the space he needed. He said he wanted to write something on the inside so I told him to do that and give it to me on Christmas. But yesterday he said that he feels like he didn’t care anymore or miss me anymore and that he felt like he couldn’t be bothered to answer to my texts… Saying The Words Will this pain ever go away? I know it can be heartbreaking when you feel like the guy you’re with no longer loves you and doesn’t want to be with you anymore. I pray to God every morning to bring peace to him and ask for strength to help us both through this tough time. I told him he needed to move out. He told me he’s not special that there’s a man out there who will love me and take care of me and be excitednwith me like I am. Did it happen in front of her children? He deleted me off facebook but still every day initiates contact through text or phone calls. 1. were there any girls? Now I feel like a big fat loser. Also, he would stop showing you that he loves you; he doesn’t say it and he doesn’t show it — he becomes cold towards you. but here i am crying and hoping that he will come back. We never cheated on each other or did something so tragic to the relationship. That although she forgave me, she cannot forget. Ive been suffering so much. The argument we had before he did this was because I lost my head and he was in a relationship with a girl and as bad as it is, we were still in contact and had slept together during etc. That it’s not worth the waste of time. I even wrote him a letter  about how much I love him and don’t want us to end our relationship. How can I start again? Anyways, these people are terrible. I asked him if he wanted to break up or not. But his niece wouldn’t move out. Again, thank you for reminding me and others we are still worthy of love. He’s manipulating you. You need to work out if you can stay knowing that you will be hurt at times and knowing that the person who you love wont say it or act it back. If i could drag him to the car and take him i would. Now I change opinion and I want the other woman. Love to everyone going though this. Im so close to his family. Is it possible to recreate your first date? This is my repayment. So, I will keep praying and putting my greatest expectations in Jesus. Ive heard it all. He took me to Barcelona for my birthday in September and it was so good to feel so happy and loved again.. Last Monday (15th oct) My Husband tells me he doesn’t love me anymore and moves out the same day. He doesn’t feel worthy of love. I keep asking him if I did something wrong and he denies it but he is so cold, we are supposed to still be together yet he is alwasy off by himself I try to talk to him but he runs away Make a friend who doesn’t know him. He doesn’t even want to try counseling. The first year was amazing. My husband and I were together for 16 years married for 12. It’s always been a challenging relationship, but we’ve worked through things and gotten stronger. He also agrees with this. Most of our arguments are over little things that really dont matter. and after last night he told me he’s sorry he dont love me. He said his feelings have changed and he can’t handle my bad habbits, he is not happy like that. My partner and husband of 16 years said he didn’t love me after I found out about an internet affair. We break up and continue to talk after… and hook up. I have been in a state of traumatic turmoil and so depressed. Set small goals at a time and try to achieve them. What happened: You had a great time together, and he suddenly disappeared. I would still live elsewhere, live with him part time, work remotely etc. My husband and I have been together for almost ten years. So keep chugging on… it’s all we can do. He went by himself. My kids are so happy cuz they hated them all here…not enuf room. The last couple of days I noticed him being very distant with me. Then came the confessions of cheating and how he could no longer look me in the eye knowing what he had done. Sitting alone in my bed. We separated July 18, he told me he was not happy and that he didnt feel the same way anymore. May you make the right decisions about when to go and how much time to spend on Facebook, and may you find the discipline to do things that make you feel strong and happy with your life. I say that out of experience. You don’t deserve that. And move on. I tried talking with him but he just said he wants me out soon and that he wants to be with a lot of people so he can finally find someone who worth. For example: when you first realize (or are told) this person will not love you back, then you should take some time to be alone somewhere, even if it's just going for a 15-minute walk at work. Learn a new language. You are not alone. I txt him bawling my eyes out trying to understand what I did wrong and why. He told me that he still care for me but honestly that made me feel 0% better. its been 5 days we haven’t been together and on Facebook he been talking allot sh!T about me to people that it was all my fault and i ruin his life and i made him dead it his friends. I hope you find man that appreciates you like you deserve. He was the sweetest, most loving, generous, kind hearted man ever. Using these patterns and triggers will mean you no longer have to wonder if he really loves you. two months ago we had the I’m not happy /I’ve found someone else talk (from him).In fact it was another woman who didn’t know about me (who I think was also seeing him,or he was trying to) who kind of tipped me off about this one.) I’m at a very hurtful time right now. I cant stand it. Should I let go of him? I know I have to accept this rejection but trying to is a different matter I want to enjoy my children and pregnancy but feel I can’t. It still struggle believing this is even possible! We rarely ever fought. My son is only 10 which makes it difficult for me to get out, he also suffers from a muscle problem with his leg which limits activities we can do. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do but I knew putting myself first was more important. Why?!? He then blocked me 2 months later as he thought this was the easiest way. You can reconnect and have restoration with God. He could only see me as a friend. But I didn’t really let on thst it bothered me. how will i ever survive ? I feel so sad im falling in depression im not going to talk to him because i just cant do that. i have been married for 17yrs now, and know my husband about more than 20yrs, known him 5yrs before marriage,married 17yrs now. Dont let him think he still has control over your life and your emotions. We then had a serious of fights that ended up with us not talking to each other. This further crushed my soul. Everything belongs. This broke me into a million pieces. But with no real positive reinforcement. My husband didn’t even stay with me the day my dad died he still went to work as life goes on. The touch and kiss didn’t feel the same. he told me allot hate full things and i couldn’t believe it at first but then i was thinking about that past 4 months. i used to go to work and count down the hours of the day to either see him or to get to the weekend to see him and now what do i have counting down the hours of a weekday to what an empty weekend. Don't know where to turn. I have to accept that he will never come back. and i very strongly oppose divorce and its so early in the marriage. Every year we travel abroad to relax and spend more time to each other outside everyday routine and work and holidays seem all find and wonderful. After your husband dies any Valentine’s Day is hard, but the first February 14 is particularly painful. Hes sent me long msgd stating hea no longer in love with me. Does this mean he doesn’t love me anymore? And I told her. He changed from that day onwards, and he was also in contact with his ex everyday. What happened: You meet occasionally after work. He has very serious issues after a messy divorce and is so self-loathing over his handling of it and his loss of all his material possessions. Because I am intelligent and I will immediately look for all the red flags I brushed aside in this relationship. And, you are a stay-at-home-mom who home schools so you don’t work outside the home? 9. Not his problems. "This article made me realize after a relapse and still trying to get over the person I believed to be my soulmate, "I love my best friend. Tell him you also feel it’s best to have some time and space. Now he’s made plans to move abroad in five to ten years and start another business. They say it will be like night and day. I wanna calm relationships. She knew what I wanted and we made the big move! i am stuck. MommyDee86. As most relationships are. But still hold on tight. I know how lost and devastated you must feel. Why do people not have hard conversations and then hurt others and the innocent kids as well? As innocent as I am I didnt take note of the signs. Learn to love yourself before you go looking for someone new to fall for. I want to make him happy.. he just doesnt believe me… I guess because he is so hurt… he also told me he is absolutly positive I am not attracted to him.. and he couldnt be farther from the truth.. As if 25 weeks pregnant! I  felt ao disrespected, unloved, unwanted, abandoned and a lot of feelings I couldn’t explain. I’m a jerk. When your time is up, move on to other thoughts and activities. Our friends and families couldn’t believe him. It really hurt my feelings and confused me, as we had just been on a date! If you’ve noticed that he doesn’t invite you to hang out with him, it may be a sign that he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend. Everything was amazing in the beginning. He had always been very cold with me on daily and also on bed, he never wanted to kiss me with passion for example. If your boyfriend – and this relationship – never changes, would you be happy to stay in it? My husband left during christmas. My Leo man and I were really head over heels in love with each other. You may be pushing him away emotionally because of your anxiety of what he did in the past. He will be going back to his parents house. When he came back I cried with happiness. The memories flood my mind constantly because we have done so much together. but I do. We have had an overall great relationship, just working out things with kids and work and stuff. Should I break up with him? It sounds like you and your ex have very strong feelings for each other. WHAT am I/are we, thinking?! Try a new hangout on Saturday night. I left because of of his 40 year old niece. we dated for a year and of course we had our ups and downs as any normal relationship does. He told me that I should love you by now and I do not. To me, he was the one. He made me lose my dignity. He wants to see his kids at Xmas in our house I think that will be the hardest thing I will have to do oh u have seen the kids open there presents great bye bye for now! Unknown, but I have to try. Copyright © 2020 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen. Learn what it means to truly love and care for yourself. He started to become a little upset too which is not like him. I think it’s best that we aren’t together, even though it hurts in the deepest, darkest parts of my soul to say this, because, despite it all, I loved my husband for who he was. Then he wanted me to go back. do I hate him? We are still affectionate and when we are good we are absolutely amazing. And before our last breathe, when we look back at everything it will all finally make sense! As hard as it is, sometimes the most loving thing we can do is let them go. I asked him if he was seeing someone else, and he said no. Anyway he was drunk tho…. At least you will not go through  the pain of see him in the arm of another woman and realize he don’t care for your feeling. After a couple of weeks I decided AGAIN that I gotta accept the fact that it’s over and literally the day I decided that I’m going to tell him, he calls me and asks me out. You were right. I just don’t know how to get back to how we were. That he is showing the truth he doesn’t want to be with me. My husband of 28 yrs told me, the day after our son’s 27th bday, that he wasn’t sure he wanted to be married anymore. He even introduced me to his kids very early on and we have spent a few nice days out all together. The crazy thing is that I never initiated any talks of marriage, he did… yet he is now the one who has backed out. But i guess his love is not strong enough. Hi Laurie! I have had my heart pulverized by a man that in my heart knew was THE ONE. My heart is so broken. I almost want to force him to go see his family. I could not believe that it was the same person. He says give him time, we can try again down the road.. And just be friends for now. I guess I read it the worng way, because he says now that he was just sending that as a friend. I hope you find man that appreciates you like you deserve. So I met this guy at work who I thought was really cute and I followed him on insta, we exchanged likes, them we sent each other messages saying we were like both attracted to each other and that we could hangout together sometime. It will be hard trust me i know but it will get easier. In the morning he asked me if I was seeing someone else because there were no dirty underwear in the hamper. It’s hurting me so much. So I ask him “do you not miss me anymore?” And he says “I think I should be honest with you” & I said, “I agree”. This night I pushed him away… He didn’t come home for two days and when he did come home finally, I just begged for it to work, that I would change. And i feel bad. It made me feel unworthy, that i wasnt good enough for him. I’m not rushing off to divorce because I’ve already been thru one divorce. A tad of uncertainty will help you transform things in your life that need work. I was so upset I had been through all the trouble for nothing. He said to me another time after that I should not worry about what he’s doing and focus on my self.I would never do things for myself like peticures,buy myself something or go out.I don’t know how to get this out of my mind. She still says she loves me. He actively pursued me!! My sister in law is my rock. We seemed to get past it and I’ve never repeated anything like that again. Hearing someone say “I’m not in love with you anymore” hurts more than words can say. During the summer we used to be apart 1 or 2 months and then I used to go to The States. I keep running to Christ because He is the only One who keeps me stable, committed, motivated, gentle and quiet. We and my husband separate on almost 10 mos we maybe get divorce .though hard decision i dont want to think about it now.We have a lot of ups and down.and he broke my heart when he told me he dont love me anymore and said he is over with me and our marraige i let him go even it it is too painful we have 8 years of marraige..He move to other cointry and its getting more difficult to talk coz everytime we have fight he block me and doesnt want to talk to me..and if ever he reply he think i am chasing him.I get tired of his childish behavior so i let him go and even it it painful and i still love him.now i am focusing on myself and my kids and my healing..i have difficulty of moving and let him go because i stilø love deeply.but when you have any other but just to move on and let him go.I turn to God all my burdern and talk to him to carry all the pain i have in my heart.and also the help of blossom tips help me to grow more and understand everything. I supported him for years both emotionally and with money. I mean the really, really, big picture beyond what the mind’s intellect can analyze or the body’s emotions can feel, but into that spacious soul place where you see way beyond what the visual eye can see. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and have a 2 year old son together. As much as it hurts to be told by your boyfriend that he doesn’t love you anymore, you have to hold on to the thought that this relationship wasn’t meant to be! He says things like ‘I need to fix the problems in my life first’. Best luck to you. I will print, "This article helped me because I realized all my feelings, thoughts, and emotions were normal, and I don't have to, "I made friends with this guy in March who is five years older than me, and we became very good friends. I know I deserve better I just can’t seem to find the motivation. he taught me a lot about life. “Let there be spaces in your togetherness,” said Khalil Gibran. We’re 20, turning 21 shortly. How did I not see this coming and why didn’t he give me any warning? I can’t begin to know how painful this will be for you. I just don’t know what to do. But now he is just kicking me while im down. but we tried to be less controlling but i cant. It is ao aad that I have love him genuinely with all my heart and it turns out he is telling everybody hod I am as his wife. He kinda made an argument out of that and the talk ended on bad terms. That hurts me, I thought he felts something. I want to wait with thia big decision but he doesnt. We chatted everyday 2 or 3 hours I felt  that our relationship  was growing and I thought we would grow old together. He is now going through depression. I feel like my whole world is falling apart. I don’t want to be hopeful, we’ve been together for over 4 years and have had some ups and downs in the past. “Let there be spaces in your togetherness,” said Khalil Gibran. Find something to engage you for long enough to get the person off your mind for a while. Without the willingness to accept vulnerability, we can’t connect with other people or experience deep emotions such as joy and love. Mind you 4 months ago was when I started taking care of my mom on the weekends cuing into his time. JOYCE The next day I told him I’m giving him 2 weeks to have his space and clear his mind. When will I stop crying and this pain end??? This just breaks my heart. People have said that I had to have missed the signs. How he missed some woman he was “dating”. I was young and stupid andf oolish to build my life around him and I don’t know how to undo it. Last year is his last coming home. It seems he is doing everything he can to push me away. If someone can’t see the value in you, it’s not worth pursuing because they’re going to always fall short. He asked if I wanted to talk, and then he called me without my response. He became an emotionless blob. 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